A: I remember before, if you chose to have divorce in the end of 80s. You must have the permission of your employers. This is called "negotiated divorce". You have to get signature of yoru employer. Many head of the work place thought of this as a bad thing. How can you just abandon your family? your children?. If a person say, this is my personal business. They will then get very angry. So you can see, political interference is a large part of it. But then the situation changed. I give you a simple example so you can see the openess of people's views now. Before 1992, 60-70% of mistakes made by party leaders are considered to be "relationship mistakes". This is what we now call "affairs". This mistake will affect a person's political career. But after 1992, this problem is no longer mentioned. So that if you have affairs now, it belongs in "family problems'. If you go to your work place leaders, they will not get involved. If you go talk to the worker's union or women's federation, they will not take care of it either. So you have to go directly to court. So this means that people's opinions are more tolerant. Also some traditional views are going through some changes. But this doesn't mean that everyone will accept it.